About Parents and their want/desire/love for you:
Love, want, desire = are all pretty much the same.
2 questions sum up what your life experience would be:
1. How much did your parents WANT you?
2. What do they WANT you for?
for 1., it is quantity of love available for 2.
for 2., if they want you for YOU, you have the best love in quality.
If they want you for an image, you have only love for an image.
The former creates the personality in line with the true self.
The latter creates a false self personality which is disconnected from the greater life force driving the being.
Love, want, desire = are all pretty much the same.
2 questions sum up what your life experience would be:
1. How much did your parents WANT you?
2. What do they WANT you for?
for 1., it is quantity of love available for 2.
for 2., if they want you for YOU, you have the best love in quality.
If they want you for an image, you have only love for an image.
The former creates the personality in line with the true self.
The latter creates a false self personality which is disconnected from the greater life force driving the being.
Journey to the Abstract 